>Soc,
> I just want to try to polish the information you gave me
>so I'm not confused in Court.
>
>1. If the (defendant? she was in the divorce, but now
>plaintiff I guess) wants punishment vs. remedy, isn't that
>automatically displeasing to the court because it looks
>hostile?
There is nothing hostile about a vindictive punishment, if you are first found in contempt. If you're not, and the court decides the matter is frivolous, that's different. But, if this contempt is filed by an attorney, there is little likelihood that the court will disfavor it.
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>2. Item three being key (willfully violated...), will my
>doctor's records showing the extent of my disability, combined
>with a letter from my current VA doctor stating that I'm only
>physically capable of having a "desk job," if anything, be
>sufficient?
The contempt is for failure to PAY support, not failure to WORK to pay support. It is not enough that you are unable to work. You must be unable to PAY, i.e., no savings, borrowing power, or assets that can be liquidated, etc. If you have no reasonable means of raising the payments, either by liquidating assets, borrowing or by working, then you will not be found in contempt. Otherwise, you will, unless you moved for modification of your support obligation prior to the time that you fell into arrears.
This is not to say that you must liquidate the tools by which you earn your living, or your only means of transportation, or that you need to move into a paper box so you can pay what would have been your rent to your ex. The key is "reasonableness."
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>3. If those aren't sufficient, what more could help? (I'm
>sure I can get it if I need it, but time is almost out).
Once again, it's not your ability to work that counts, but assuming for argument that you don't have the ability to pay, then the hole in your argument is that the doctor says that you can work a desk job. Therefore, you must be making reasonable efforts to FIND a desk job, and be able to show the court how much various desk jobs that you might be qualified for, pay, and that you have been unable to obtain this sort of employment.