Any books or web sites on how to handle the intransigeent STBX?

[setmefree]

Anyone out there knows of books or sites that I can read/visit to handle my STBX's outbusrts, accusations, threats? She is not taking the news of an impending separation  divorce well.  She is an adult, so I don't worry about her too much, but her behavior affects the kids and hurts them.  I'd appreciate any suggestions.

rs

[CustodyIQ]

I have a list of recommended books on my website.

A few of them may fit what you're looking for, but because I don't know all the details of your situation, it'd probably be best for you to look over the list and read the brief descriptions I provided of each.

[FLMom]

I highly suggest two books:

"Joint Custody With a Jerk: Raising a Child with an Uncoopererative Ex"

and. . . . . .

"Mom's House, Dad's House".

Another good book that is not child related, but is adept at teaching you how to handle 'situations' is called "The Truth About Managing People". It's mostly corporate related, but also has some good hints and wisdoms throughout.

Good Luck,
FLMom