Well, its just the point that she owes it. We don't really need it and DH would rather have the tax deduction over her paying him every month. She can't keep a job so the inconsistancy and filings and submit this or that to CS is just a pain in the you know what. It would be nice for her to contribute to their sporting fees and what not, but these kids are not without much. We both make a very good living.
What was really fun is what we spent it on... I'm sure I will get scolded but technically it is for the kids. We do ALOT of driving between homes, visits and work. Most of the time the kids go in the van with me because I have the flip down DVD player, but now they want to go with Dad in the truck because he has new dual screen DVD players for them to watch! :)
BM doesn't know yet, but they can't wait to tell her...heh heh. Ok that was my 2 minutes of enjoyment. :)