Ex continues to play games Need help!

I guess I can show I called bm, son (w/no answer) and police via phone records. I still can't get a hold of my son, it's been three weeks now. She always tells me "that's why I bought him a phone so you can call him" but I can't ever get through. Several times I've called her phone and she answered but won't put my son on she'll just tell me "yeah he's right here watching tv, call him on his phone that's why I bought it" then she will hang up. I'll call my son on his phone and no answer.
I've been reading a lot of threads and I just can't figure out what's up w/all the mothers out there that just don't care and are so evil. You always hear on tv don't be a "deadbeat dad" but many mothers out there make it almost impossible to be a part of your kids life. I just don't get it!! Oh, but don't miss a child support payment whatever you do. Miss a payment, DL invalid in 3 weeks. Denied visitation for 6 months, oh well set another court date.
CRAZY, I hope things get better for the next generations!

Good Luck to All Of Us Out There Just Trying To Be DAD

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