finding help

[thehoppers]

My wife has pushed me to the point of banruptsy, I lost the house.  She spends a fortune on Dr. bills and prescription drugs.  I found a $23,000 bill she ran up when she was out of town.  I didn't know anything about it.  Her dad is paying for her lawyer.  How do I find help on an extremely limited budget (what she left me with)?  I also found an offer to buy the house that I didn't know about.  So, I could have sold the house and not lost it to foreclosure.