Alienated Father Needs Help.

[CrenshawClark]

Thank you. JT and I have some pretty big decissions to make...  I must not be making myself clear.. After MT (his daughter) refussed the 3rd visit at the 1st place they would not set up any more appts for visits. The second plave interviewed her before even attempting to set up visits (after taking our $400) and stated she was refussing. There have been no attempts at visitation since early November because the court won't do anything about it!.

[CrenshawClark]

14 days until trial... JT's parents came up with the rest of the money!! Its a blessing and a curse... We sat down for "Family Meeting" and added up everything we had actually paid, not lost wages or gas for the hour drive to court or tolls or parking, just what we had PAID Drs, Investigators, visitation centers and LAWYERS!! Are you ready..... 56k to date....thats before JT's parents fork over the "Last"/"Next" 12-15k!!!!!

Anyhow... at this point I am complaining about the wrong things!!! I hope to be posting in 2 weeks with good news!! I really hope JT and MT get in the same room soon!!! Pray for us!!


We are gonna need lots of advice on what to do AFTER trial!!! That is when the real work helping MT will begin!!!
 

[txmom702]

You never did answer how old his MT is...  That will make a big difference.

[CrenshawClark]

She just turned 11. She was 9 the last time her father saw her. Sorry. 11 more days!!

[CrenshawClark]

Depos done... Over  90% of the questions were about money... I was SHOCKED!! Probably shouldn't have been... but it has NEVER been about the money for us...only in the capacity of wasting it on lawyers!! So sad.... I really just thought she was crazy... this is worse.... To think that MT has had to go through this over child support that we will and have always been willing to pay... Makes no sense!!!