The S.A.I.D. Victim
(Sexual Allegations In Divorce)
by William Reid Kimbrough, Jr.
Accusations of sexual abuse in custody and visitation disputes continue
and studies indicate the national divorce rate is increasing. Matrimonial
attorneys are having clients, the accused as well as the accuser, undergo
polygraph and psychological testing.
Statistics on the frequency of the accusations are inconclusive on this
social problem that is not limited to the United States. Layman and
professional cite high or low percentages that support education, training,
experience, and personal beliefs. Only one study has been conducted on
the issue, the results eventually became the foundation for the American
Bar Associations' "SEXUAL ABUSE ALLEGATIONS IN CUSTODY AND VISITATION
CASES: A Resource Book for Judges and Court Personnel".
Resource material on child abuse and allegations of child abuse clearly
indicate the mental health community is divided on the accusations issue.
Psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers, therapists, and counselors
have taken definite sides, particularly in regard to sexual child abuse.
This article is about the falsely accused - how they react, the response
they receive, what they learn, and what they propose. The intent is to
point out that many falsely accused individuals react in ways that go far
beyond 'I did not do what you have accused me of doing'. Another intent
is to pose challenges to the mental health industry which is sustaining
the accusations.
The accused are parents who have been falsely accused of sexually abusing
a minor child in the context of either a custody or visitation dispute.
While the majority of those accused are fathers, by pending or ex-wives,
mothers have also been falsely accused under the same circumstances. For
the most part their names are not known to the general public. Some cases
occasionally appear in the press, but with few exceptions do we read about
them in the national media.
For the purpose of this article the falsely accused will be called "SAID
Victims", from the June 1987 Karol Ross and Gordon Blush paper "The SAID
Syndrome: Sexual Allegations in Divorce". SAID Victims will be further
defined as individuals who 1) never sexually abused a minor child, and 2)
a court of law determined there was no sexual abuse.
Child abuse and allegations of child abuse are alarmingly real in our society
today - reports are both true and false. They are made in good faith
by mandated reporters protected by judicial immunity, by anonymous callers
to state hotline phones, by malicious neighbors, by disgruntled day care
employees, by students, by step-children in blended families, & by spouses
in custody/visitation disputes. While this paper concerns itself with the
SAID Victim, other falsely accused individuals may easily relate to the
topic.
Short History
In 1925 Navy Lt. Lyman Swenson's former wife was awarded custody of the
minor children of the marriage. The "tender years" doctrine applied. The
former Mrs. Swenson interfered with visitation and "made charges and
statements against (him) of a serious and derogatory nature, all of which
were untrue and made without any foundation and for no cause whatsoever".
In 1929 the California First District Court of Appeals awarded custody to
the lieutenant.
In 1955, after almost three years of litigation, the Minnesota Supreme
Court (Stoll v. Stoll) affirmed a trial courts decision to transfer custody
from the mother to the father. The evidence indicated the mother had
developed delusions that the father desired to perform indecent acts with
the children and attempted to impress such thoughts upon the children.
The court stated, "The strain upon all of these lives resulting from the
(mother's) false accusations and fixed delusions has been severe, and is
beginning to make itself felt in the formulating of the mental attitude
and character of these children".
In 1961 the Supreme Court of Iowa ruled (Andreesen v. Andreesen) that the
wife, who suffered from paranoia and accompanying delusions, was not entitled
to have custody of the minor child. Among other things the mother
believed her minor daughter had been sexually molested by the father and
the child would become a prostitute. The court stated the mother "seems
to be furtherest from normal on sexual matters".
In 1977 after a custody reversal from the mother to the father the New
York Supreme Court (Appellate Division) stated in Hotze v. Hotze that in
all her contacts with the son she reiterated the same destructive theme to
him, "is your father beating you?", "try to escape", don't give up hope".
She also made unfounded accusations of homosexuality against her former
husband and accused him of sleeping with her daughter.
In 1981 S.L. Kaplan and S.J. Kaplan alerted the mental health community on
accusations of sexual child abuse during divorce and custody proceedings.
This is acknowledged as the first formal reporting of a potential problem.
In 1985 the House Committee on Children, Youth and Families was told, "As
many as 10-15 percent of the evaluations involve the custody dispute between
separated, divorcing, divorced spouses, and/or other co-habiting
persons...It is clear that parents and lawyers have determined that the
only way to deny permanent visiting privileges of another spouse is to
allege child abuse or sexual abuse".
Accusations of sexual child abuse made in the context of custody or visitation
litigation were abundant during the 1980's. A study on the correlation between
the accusations and changes in state statutes on custody
determinations and type (sole, joint, and so on) would be interesting.
More fathers seeking custody during this decade is another factor that
should be considered.
During this period an increase of child abuse was seen on a national level,
many statistics failed to mention the rising incidence of reports made
in custody or visitation litigation.
The SAID Victim - What They Learn
Recall the time in your youth when you and your playmates took apples from
a neighbors tree and consider three scenarios: 1) You took the apples, you
know the neighbor saw you, and you were confronted; 2) You took the apples
however the neighbor did not see you, and you were confronted; and 3) You
never took any apples but were accused. Remember your reactions to each.
In March 1986 Dr. Sharon Satterfield (University of Minnesota) testified
before the Minnesota Attorney General's Task Force On Child Abuse Within
the Family.
Dr. Satterfield was asked "what happens to the children who have been falsely
identified as being sexually abused?" She replied, "the most horrendous
thing that can happen to a family is to be falsely accused. There are
many well documented cases of reported abuse where abuse did not occur. It
is a nightmare for both the accused and the children". She continued, "the
acute symptoms of families who have been falsely accused are similar to
those symptoms of families where abuse has occurred. It is a post traumatic
stress disorder that these families go through."
In October 1986 the final report on the Minnesota task force included the
statement, "Not every allegation of abuse is true. The impact of false
allegations on families can be devastating--the stigma within the community,
the potential loss of employment, and the trauma to all within the
family. In child custody cases this problem is particularly evident".
This task force followed the Scott County, Minnesota abuse cases. A report
on that investigation was issued in February 1985.
Also in 1986, while Minnesota was gathering information for its task force
on child abuse, the Research Unit of the Association of Family and Conciliation
Courts announced it was seeking input for the Abuse Allegation Project.
This project sought information on sexual abuse allegations in divorce cases.
A notice on this project appeared in a 1986 copy of the Family Advocate,
one of many publications not initially known to falsely accused persons.
Networking by special interest groups urged SAID Victims to respond to the
project and many did to the researchers at the Association of Family and
Conciliation Courts.
How then does an individual react after being accused of doing something
they never did, specifically SAID Victims? There have been comments from
the mental health community but no in-depth research studies are found in
the resource material. Most material has been written by special interest
groups and falsely accused individuals.
Until proper research is conducted, along with changes required in the
mental health and legal disciplines, SAID Victims will continue an innate
educational process on the social issue they involuntarily became involved
in. Emotional support, effective issue-educated legal representation, and
precise documentation are predominant needs for the falsely accused.
There are a number of things that SAID Victims must do when a false accusation
occurs, however because of many factors they are not often in the
best position to properly defend themselves (timeliness, the trauma of a
false accusation, and lack of knowledge on the issue).
Extremely competent and knowledgeable legal counsel is required, whether
or not an accusation of child abuse is made in the context of custody or
visitation litigation. Attorneys have many cases in which they are involved,
falsely accused persons have only one, which they know best.
Experience has shown that individuals who help their own cause have a better
chance of success. The collecting of pertinent information, a chronology of
events, and supporting resource material is very important and may
be used as a basis for direct and cross-examination of witnesses by legal
counsel.
Most SAID Victims initially respond to a false accusation by contacting
lay groups. These groups provide some of the first resource material on
the accusations issue as well as other social issues that easily explain
why the groups were formed. SAID Victims quickly realize they are not
alone; other individuals have been accused under the same circumstances,
others are presently living the nightmare.
The falsely accused then find themselves involved in a networking phase
with understanding and informative strangers: Bob Adams, Jimmy Boyd, Jim
Cook, Peter Cyr, Nat Denman, Richard Doyle, Richard Esdale, Bob Hirschfeld,
Randy Ingle, Robert Karls, George Kelly, Al Lebow, David Levy, Ken
Lewis, Bob McGuigan, Michael Naylor, Ken Pangborn, John Rutherford, Peter
Sokaris, Tony Steffes, Dick Woods, and many others.
Contacts with lay groups can be critically important to SAID Victims. Depending
on when an accusation was made, and the status of legal matters,
timely advice may be offered which can have a profound effect on the future of
the falsely accused and the children involved. Thanks is given to
the above individuals and their organizations for helping SAID Victims.
The falsely accused soon find themselves reading newsletters called Legal
Beagles, Liberators, Court Watchers, Divorce Watchers, Father's Reviews,
Father's Forums, Father's Journals, NetWORK, Transitions, Speak Out For
Children, and numerous others. The subject matter in these publications
tells more than who the SAID Victims are, concern is expressed for the
true victims of the accusations - the children.
True SAID Victims acquire, share, and read everything they can on the accusations
issue. Phone and mail expenses increase; networking expands (at
times to other countries); and frequent trips to community, university,
and legal libraries are made. Sports Illustrated, Popular Mechanics, and
other publications of past interest are no longer read as an abrupt lifestyle
change, born of necessity, emerges.
The falsely accused learn of professional associations, and private enterprises,
they did not know existed: the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts,
the American Orthopsychiatric Association, the National Association of Social Workers,
the American Psychological Association, the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, the American Academy
of Psychotherapists, and the Institute for Psychological Therapies are only a few.
For obvious reasons the first resource material that SAID Victims receive
from special interest groups relates to accusations made in the context of
custody and visitation disputes. The falsely accused learn of individuals
from the medical, mental health, and other professions who express concerns
on the many issues associated with sexual child abuse: Dr. Elissa P.
Benedek, Douglas J. Besharov, Dr. Gordon Blush, Dr. Harold Boverman, Dr.
Lee Coleman, Kathleen M. Dillon, Margretta Dwyer, Robert L. Emans, Dr.
Richard A. Gardner, Corey L. Gordon, Dr. Arthur H. Green, Dr. Melvin Guyer,
Dr. William F. McIver, Dr. David C. Raskin, Dr. Domeena C. Renshaw,
Karol Ross, Dr. Diane H. Schetky, Professor LeRoy G. Schultz, Dr. Daniel
C. Schuman, William D. Slicker, Dr. Ralph C. Underwager, Dr. Alayne Yates,
Dr. John C. Yuille, and numerous others.
The falsely accused obtain publications these authors cite and note that
they appear to represent one segment of the overall mental health community.
The falsely accused is aware that learning only one side of an
issue is fundamentally wrong, yet later discover many individuals,
representing all levels of this community, have no interest in educating
themselves on the accusations issue, and the word "mindset" is added to an
expanding vocabulary.
In time the falsely accused become knowledgeable on true child abuse and
its many forms: psychological, physical, prenatal, selling, and sexual. It
is in this phase that SAID Victims realize the full extent of the two related
social problems and that other professionals in the mental health
community have widely different opinions on the accusations issue.
New names and material is read on true sexual child abuse as the falsely
accused learns of their concerns: Dr. Gene Abel, Cordelia Anderson, Lucy
Berliner, Angela Brown, Dr. Donald C. Bross, Dr. Ann W. Burgess, Dr. Jon
R. Conte, Dr. David Finkelhor, Dr. A. Nicholas Groth, Dr. Astrid Heger,
Dr. Judith L. Herman, Jan Hindman, Linda L. Holmstrom, Fay H. Knopp, Dr.
Richard D. Krugman, Kee MacFarlane, Mary McQuiston, Ann Seig, Dr. Suzanne
M. Sgroi, Dr. Frances Sink, Dr. Roland C. Summit, Dr. Sue White, Dr. Bruce
Woodling, and many others.
True SAID Victims, and victims of other false accusations, often acquire
large amounts of resource material on child abuse and allegations of child
abuse. Such material may be defined as any type of information created by
any individual or group of individuals who express concern on the two related
subjects. The use of computers to manage extensive amounts of data
is valuable in categorizing information, noting trends, analyzing statistics,
and correlating names and topics.
It appears that one segment of the mental health community offered few or
no opinions on the accusations issue until February 1988 when the American
Bar Association published "SEXUAL ABUSE ALLEGATIONS IN CUSTODY AND VISITATION
CASES: A Resource Book for Judges and Court Personnel". This is based
on a chronological review of the resource material on child abuse & allegations
of child abuse from 1929 to the present. The review, as well as
the background for this paper, included over 950 selections representing
more than 5,000 pages of material.
The schism in the mental health community is evident as one reads the professional
material, with the titles and subject matter primarily defining
the writers position on child abuse and allegations of child abuse. As is
common in the professions, researchers report on their findings, comment
on, and reference the prior work of others. It is easy for anyone however
to see how those in this community have reacted to the accusations issue.
Their own material shows these individuals so divided that they trade professional
barbs across the boundary that separates the two sides. More
often than not they fail to acknowledge the findings of others within
their own discipline, and when they do, those works with opposing views
(often on the same topic of concern) are either dismissed, downplayed, or
strongly criticized.
Quite often the references in these papers continually cite the same individuals
who share and support the beliefs and opinions of the writer. One
segment is more guilty in doing this than the other. One author cited material
on the accusations issue from another segment of the mental health
community as "one body of psychological literature".
At times the accusations issue within this community appears somewhat analogous to
a husband-wife argument where whomever gets in the last word is
"right". The last word being the most recently published paper in whatever
prestigious journal published it. These individuals are at the top of the
mental health profession and are not those employed in local mental health
centers, county or state social service agencies, rape crisis centers, or
woman's shelters.
If one reads enough material generated by the entire mental health community it
is evident there are many authorities on child abuse and allegations of child abuse,
specifically sexual child abuse. However, the actions of these professionals, along
with some common sense, tells the falsely accused layman that with so much internal
conflict the profession has removed itself from being called authoritative and raises
the question as to whether there are any true "experts". The 1986 Minnesota
Attorney General's Task Force On Child Abuse Within the Family, as well as more recent
resource material, reflects a national concern on "experts".
Unfortunate as it is the law enforcement, legal, and media professions often
look to the mental health community for guidance. "Nationally known
expert", "sex abuse expert" and "expert testimony" are frequently seen in
resource material from all disciplines. Consider, for example, the article
by Margaret Cronin Fisk, "Abuse: The New Weapon", that was in The National
Law Journal on July 17, 1989: "Too often in these cases, the lawyer on one
side will get experts to verify that the sexual abuse occurred, and lawyers on the
other side will line up experts to just as firmly refute the
allegation".
Consider also the "psychologist" who had "enjoyed a national reputation as
an expert in child custody and abuse cases". The individual practiced as
a psychologist, had his license revoked, and his doctorate was in philosophy.
He co-authored a paper in the American Bar Associations' "SEXUAL ABUSE ALLEGATIONS IN
CUSTODY AND VISITATION CASES: A Resource Book for Judges and Court Personnel".
The bottom line is that there are ten's of thousands of authorities on child abuse in this
country, but few true experts.
As concerned parents we are all aware of the child abuse prevention programs in our schools and communities, the good touch/bad touch books, the
Marvel comic books, and the material available from the Boy Scouts, Girl
Scouts, Big Brothers/Big Sisters, Parents Anonymous, and other social programs.
The falsely accused notes that the individuals consulted for these
programs, as well as the publications they provide, are mainly from one
segment of the mental health community.
SAID Victims also notice that there are no children's books that portray
what a child, who was never sexual abused, was thinking or feeling as they
were questioned or medically examined. Lawsuits have been filed by falsely
accused individuals on behalf of their children who were in truth psychologically and/or sexually abused during evaluation procedures.
Because of their concern for true child abuse the falsely accused attends
conferences and obtains information from past conferences. SAID Victims
note who the speakers were, what workshops were presented, who sponsored
and attended the conference, and what questions were avoided and by who.
The falsely accused observes trends on child abuse conferences & notices
that more often than not those individuals with beliefs similar to the
sponsors become the invited speakers and workshop presenters, and special
interest groups do the same thing.
The accusations of sexual child abuse in custody and visitation disputes
has been a focused issue since the early 1980's but the subject is either
not presented or is inadequately presented at child abuse conferences, in
particular at the levels where it should be. Whether the subject is included
depends on who is speaking and who is sponsoring or co-sponsoring the
conference (rape crisis center, state agency, professional organization,
safehouse, or other).
In their education the falsely accused literally learns a new vocabulary
and often the first phrase they hear is "behavioral indicators consistent
with children who have been sexually abused". The layman SAID Victim
compares these behavioral indicators of sexual child abuse with symptoms
exhibited by children of divorce or whose parents are divorcing, behaviors
of children where there is alcohol or other substance abuse in the home,
homes where there is domestic violence, & behaviors of children with the
attention deficit disorder.
When SAID Victims consider the internal conflict among the "experts" in
the mental health community they come to the same conclusions and opinions
that any other non-professional would make on the sexual abuse indicators.
Prior to an accusation the falsely accused may have built a doll house or
made doll clothes, now they find themselves reading about dolls with anatomical
parts and court rulings on the dolls for admissibility of evidence
(Kelly-Frye test). The original intent of the dolls was as a therapeutic
tool to treat young children who were sexually abused. Now their use has
been extended to being a diagnostic tool to determine if sexual abuse did
occur. The controversy continues on this use of the anatomical dolls.
The SAID Victim also reads about a sexual child abuse accommodation syndrome
and the opinions of others on this syndrome. The falsely accused also becomes
knowledgeable on other syndromes: the Parental Alienation Syndrome, Munchausens'
Syndrome by Proxy, statement reality analysis, and the
SAID Syndrome. SAID Victims later learn that many persons who investigate
child abuse cases and many who do evaluations for sexual abuse have never
heard of the latter four syndromes, and have no interest in learning about
them.
The resource material indicates that new information is being provided by
one portion of the mental health community on the last four syndromes and
their relationships to the accusations issue. The sexual child abuse accommodation
syndrome, frequently referenced in the past, is now being referenced less and less.
The author of this syndrome was not included in
the February 1988 American Bar Association publication, however this syndrome is still
one of the basic training tools of those employed at the
level where the accusations are first assessed and courtroom testimony on
this subject is frequently part of legal proceedings.
Excellent professional work involving research studies and statistics on
true sexual abuse of children have been reported for many years, however
the resource material indicates only one in-depth study has been conducted
on the accusations issue. Much can be said on determining statistics: who
was contacted in gathering information, who was left out and why, what was
really found, and what was finally reported.
Statistics can be used for many valid reasons, however in analyzing the
resource material on sexual child abuse it appears statistics are often
misused, intermixed, and partially presented to either support points of
view or to obtain local, state, or federal funds for programs. The same
applies for statistics on domestic violence.
Statistics on the accusations of sexual child abuse in custody and visitation
disputes are inconclusive; they will remain so until further studies
are conducted with involvement from all segments of the mental health community,
from individuals not experienced in sexual child abuse, from special interests
groups, and from SAID Victims.
Special interests groups & SAID Victims responded to the Abuse Allegation
Project of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts, however none
of their input is seen in any papers that emerged from the project. Many
disciplines become necessarily involved when an accusation of sexual child
abuse is made whether in the context of a custody dispute or otherwise.
All involved are not only part of the total statistics of a social issue
but of an education process as well.
SAID Victims educate themselves to a greater extent than others on child
abuse, and the accusations issue, and often provide information to the legal
and media professions. The falsely accused learn the accusations were
predicted as a weapon in custody disputes, read about proper and improper
evaluation techniques, inadequate investigations, the use of video taping
in interviews, incorrect use of subtests on MMPI scoring, new state laws
on false accusations, and learn about a national underground kidnapping
movement. The resource material constantly stresses the need for all disciplines
to become better educated and trained on the issue.
The true experts in sexual child abuse, and accusations of sexual child abuse,
obviously cannot be employed at the level where the accusations are
first assessed and evaluations as to their authenticity are made. It is
this level in the mental health community where ten's of thousands of authorities
are employed that education is most crucial.
SAID Victims not only learn the common characteristics of evaluations but
also the education, background, and personal beliefs of the evaluators,
sometimes called validators. Frequently the evaluations are based upon
the individuals education on behavioral indicators and the accommodation
syndrome, and the utilization of drawings, play therapy, good touch/bad
touch books, and anatomical dolls. More often than not these individuals
believe that "children do not lie".
The resource material is indicating some who do the evaluations were themselves
victims of sexual child abuse. Sexual abuse of any child is deplorable, however
it does not require a degree in psychology to realize these
individuals would have pre-conceived opinions when an accusation is made.
These evaluation procedures which, at times, reflect the personal history
and beliefs of the evaluators, often questionable assessment techniques,
and lack of education on the accusations issue, are conducted until the
"truth" is extracted by non-objective adults who then conclude a child was
sexually abused. It is then common to initiate psychologically damaging
therapy for children who were not sexually abused but were parental pawns
in custody or visitation disputes.
Improper evaluations and incomplete investigations lead to what is defined
as "false positives". They result in the alleged abuser's name being entered
in a state register as a child abuser and the alleged victim becomes
a victim. No where in the resource material on national and state victim
advocate groups is it seen that SAID Victims, or other falsely accused individuals,
get classified as do victims of crime or domestic violence.
The present assessment techniques, which originated and are known by those
at the top of the mental health community, indicate important educational
changes are required, and these changes must be correlated with state and
local child protection agencies.
It appears that the mental health community, and other disciplines, have
not fully learned or implemented the lessons taught by, for example, the
Scott County case or the McMartin preschool case regarding evaluation and
investigation procedures. Both are still current controversies in the most
recent resource material.
The many states that have had lawsuits filed against them basically caused
their own problems. State child abuse task forces that do not consider the
concerns of all professionals in the mental health community and state
agencies that limit training of state personnel to selected individuals
are not adequately fulfilling their role as true child advocates. Lawsuit
claims of 'not providing adequate training in sexual abuse' are inherently
correct.
State agencies also need to provide specialized training on the sex abuse
accusations that occur in custody and visitation disputes. Because of the
dynamics involved in the accusation cases training on sexual child abuse
alone is no longer adequate. The granting of judicial immunity to perform
one's duties is different than being fully responsible for one's actions,
or having absolute immunity. There are mental health experts, as well as
other individuals, who can provide this training, and whom state agencies
have generally excluded in the past.
Summary
Not all accusations of sexual child abuse in custody or visitation disputes are
false and it is has not been the intent of this article to imply they are. Sexual
abuse of children by either parent is a valid reason
to end a marriage, as is true domestic violence.
Almost a decade ago the mental health community warned itself on the accusations issue
then proceeded to respond in a manner that created adult and
child victims alike. This industry however is not fully responsible, but
because of the roles these professionals fulfill in our society they have
been a major contributor in allowing the issue to continue and get out of
hand in the manner that it has.
Further responsibility should be attributed to the American Bar Associations'
Young Lawyers Division. The Abuse Allegation Project, started in
1986 by Dr. Nancy Thoennes and Dr. Jessica Pearson, eventually led to the
ABA publication "SEXUAL ABUSE ALLEGATIONS IN CUSTODY AND VISITATION CASES:
A Resource Book for Judges and Court Personnel". It is unfortunate this
publication was intended for the audience cited. Compared to past material
from the National Legal Resource Center for Child Advocacy and Protection
a major disservice has been provided for children who become involved in
the accusations issue.
The book was poorly edited and certain mental health professionals were
selected to contribute. More than half of the book consisted of excerpts
from previously published material, which the community knew about, and
which did not really deal with allegations in custody and visitation disputes.
While these excerpts were important, sexual abuse of children, and
the accusations of sexual abuse, are two related issues which feature experts
from the entire mental health community, and this was known by the
editors of this publication. The valid concerns expressed by all within
the community would have made the publication a true resource book. The
Abuse Allegation Project, the American Bar Association resource book, and
the individuals associated with both deserve a closer look.
According to the code of ethics of many professional mental health organizations
the entire community has an ethical obligation to serve society.
These professionals must compromise on the issues that separate them and
mutually work together for a coherent community. The concerns of everyone
must be correlated and all dynamics present in alleged sexual child abuse
must be evaluated to make a proper determination of whether a child was in
fact sexually abused.
Various segments of the mental health community can no longer remain adamant
in their opinions on the accusations issue and changes must occur at
the top of this community so they may filter down to that initial evaluator.
The ABA publication is an excellent example of the lack of coherency
that exists in this profession, with assistance from one segment of the
legal profession.
Changes will come as they always do on social issues but often the trend
in this country is that some well known person initiates the changes because
they were personally affected. Alcohol and drug abuse are good examples.
When someone known to us all becomes a SAID Victim then changes
will occur.
We need not wait however because there are well qualified authorities in
this nation to affect the necessary change. As we start a new decade the
mental health profession is challenged to initiate this process and good
starting areas for this divided community might be: 1) Joint child abuse
conferences, 2) Combined research studies and papers on the issues, and
3) An in-depth research study on SAID Victims. A questionnaire is available
from the author that may be used as a basis of research.
The following are just a few who can combine their expertise: Dr. Elissa
P. Benedek, Lucy Berliner, Dr. Gordon J. Blush, Dr. Ann W. Burgess, Dr.
Lee Coleman, Dr. Jon R. Conte, Dr. David Finkelhor, Dr. Richard A. Gardner,
Dr. Arthur Green, Dr. A. Nicholas Groth, Dr. Melvin Guyer, Dr. Judith
L. Herman, Dr. Richard D. Krugman, Dr. Sharon Satterfield, Dr. Diane H.
Schetky, Dr. Suzanne M. Sgroi, LeRoy G. Schultz, Dr. Roland C. Summit, Dr.
Sue White, and Dr. Ralph C. Underwager.
Thanks to the work of Dr. Groth and others, there is a substantial amount
of research data on incarcerated pedophiles, child molesters, and sexual
deviates. At one time these individuals most likely said, 'I did not do
what you have accused me of doing'. The pedophiles and child molesters who
are not imprisoned live in our communities and represent a bonafide risk
to our children in social programs, and at public and school playgrounds.
This article has pointed out that true SAID Victims go far beyond simply
saying, 'I did not do what you have accused me of doing'. They respond by
educating themselves, identifying problems, and suggesting changes. A research
study on SAID Victims is highly recommended, their input on the accusations
issue is mandatory, and they can provide invaluable information
to the mental health community on a social issue that changed their lives.
January 1991
William Reid Kimbrough, Jr. is a free lance writer, the Director of Abuse
Allegation Research for the National Congress of Men and Children and the
Divorced Men's Association of Connecticut. He is the founder of REIDLINE
Associates (litigation support service) and a single parent who lives with
his ten year old son in Preston, Connecticut.
Copyright 1991 - REIDLINE Associates