The Spectrum Of Parental Alienation Syndrome (Part I)
Forensic Psychologist, Deirdre Conway Rand, PhD
AMERICAN JOURNAL OF FORENSIC PSYCHOLOGY, VOLUME 15, NUMBER 3, 1997
The Parental Alienation Syndrome, so named
by Dr. Richard Gardner, is a distinctive family response to
divorce in which the child becomes aligned with one parent and
preoccupied with unjustified and/or exaggerated denigration of
the other target parent. In severe cases, the child's once
love-bonded relationship with relected/target parent is
destroyed. Testimony on Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) in
legal proceedings has sparked debate. This two-part article
seeks to shed light on the debate by reviewing Gardner's work
and that of others on PAS, integrating the concept of PAS with
research on high conflict divorce and other related literature.
The material is organized under topic headings such as parents
who induce alienation, the child in PAS, the target/alienated
parent. attorneys on PAS, and evaluation and intervention. Part
II begins with the child in PAS. Case vignettes of moderate to
severe PAS are presented in both parts, some of which illustrate
the consequences for children and families when the system is
successfully manipulated by the alienating parent, as well as
some difficult but effective interventions implemented by the
author, her husband Randy Rand, Ed.D., and other
colleagues.
Dr. Richard Gardner was an experienced child
and forensic psychiatrist conducting evaluations when, in 1985,
he introduced the concept of Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS)
in an article entitled "Recent Trends in Divorce and Custody
Litigation" (1). His work with children and families during the
1970s led him to write such books as Boys and Girls Book of
Divorce, The Parents Book About Divorce and
Psychotherapy with Children of Divorce. He knew from
experience that the norm for children of divorce was to continue
to love and long for both parents, in spite of the divorce and
the passage of years, a finding replicated by one of the first
large scale studies of divorce (2). With this background,
Gardner became concerned in the early 1980s about the increasing
number of divorce children he was seeing who, especially in the
course of custody evaluations, presented as preoccupied with
denigrating one parent, sometimes to the point of expressing
hatred toward a once loved parent. He used the term Parental
Alienation Syndrome to refer to the child's symptoms of
denigrating and rejecting a previously loved parent in the
context of divorce.
Gardner's focus on PAS as a disturbance of
children in divorce is unique, although from the mid-1980s on
there has been a proliferation of professional literature on
disturbing trends in divorce/custody disputes, including false
allegations of abuse to influence the outcome. At least three
other divorce syndromes have been identified. In 1986, two
psychologists in Michigan, who were as yet unaware of Gardner's
work, published the first of several papers on the SAID
syndrome, Blush and Ross's acronym for sex abuse allegations in
divorce (3). Drawing on their experience doing evaluations for
the family court, and the experience of their colleagues at the
clinic there, these authors delineated typologies for the
falsely accusing parent, the child involved and the accused
parent. Two of the divorce syndromes named in the literature
focus on the rage and pathology of the alienating or falsely
accusing parent. Jacobs in New York and Wallerstein in
California published case reports of what they called Medea
Syndrome (4, 5). Jacobs discussed Gardner's work on PAS in his
1988 study of a Medea Syndrome mother, as did Turkat when he
described Divorce Related Malicious Mother Syndrome in 1994 (6).
Fathers, too, can be found with this disorder, as one of the
case vignettes below indicates, but for some reason Turkat has
not encountered any.
In addition to articles specifically on PAS
and literature which refers to it, there is a body of divorce
research and clinical writings which, without a name, describe
the phenomenon. The literature reviewed here comes from a number
of sources including: practitioners who like Gardner are seeking
to improve the diagnostic skills and intervention strategies of
the courts and other professionals who deal with high conflict
divorce; attorneys and judges who come in contact with PAS
cases; researchers like Clawar and Rivlin who reference
Gardner's work on PAS in their large scale study of parental
programming in divorce (7) and Johnston whose work on high
conflict divorce (8) led her to study the problem of children
who refuse visitation, including a discussion of PAS (9). When
PAS is viewed from the standpoint of parts and subprocesses
which create the whole, the literature which pertains increases
exponentially, for example: psychological characteristics of
parents who falsely accuse in divorce/custody disputes; cults
who help divorcing parents alienate their children from the
other parent; and psychological abuse of children in severe PAS
including Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy type abuse.
The trends identified by Gardner and others
are the result of important social changes which began to take
root and flower around the mid 1970s. The legal treatment of
divorce and child custody shifted from the preference for
mothers to have sole custody and the "tender years
presumption" to the preference for joint custody and
"best interests of the child." This gave divorce
fathers more legal options for parenting their children and
increased the quantity and intensity of divorce disputes as
parents vehemently disagreed over the numerous custodial
arrangements now possible. By the late 1970s, rising concern
about parental programming of children to influence the outcome
of disputes led the American Bar Association Section of Family
Law to commission a large scale study of the problem. The
results of this 12 year study were published in 1991 in a book
called Children Held Hostage (7). Clawar and Rivlin found
that parental programming was practiced to varying degrees by 80
percent of divorcing parents, with 20 percent of engaging in
such behaviors with their children at least once a day. Further
discussion of this book appears below.
At the same time as new divorce trends have
been emerging, sweeping social changes have been occurring in
society's treatment of child abuse. Mandated reporting became
the law of the land in the 1970s and the procedures for making
reports were simplified such that anonymous reports are now
accepted and acted upon in some states. As the number of
suspected abuse reports practically doubled, so did the number
of false and unsubstantiated reports, according to statistics
compiled by the National Center for Child Abuse and Neglect in
1988 which showed that non-valid reports outnumbered cases of
bona fide abuse by a ratio of two to one (10).
According to some observers, false
allegations of abuse in contested divorce/custody cases have
become the ultimate weapon. Judge Stewart wrote that
"Family Courts nationwide are feeling the effects of a new
fad being used by parties to a custody dispute-the charge that
the other parent is molesting the child...The impact of such an
allegation on the custody litigation is swift and major...The
Family Court judge is apt to cut off the accused's access to the
child pending completion of the investigation" (11, p.
329). In response to concerns such as these, the Research Unit
of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts obtained
funding for a study on sex abuse accusations in divorce/custody
disputes (12). Data for 1985-1986 were gathered from family
court sites across the country. At that time, the incidence of
sex abuse allegations in divorce was found to average two
percent, but varied from one percent to eight percent depending
on the court site. Results of this study suggest that sex abuse
allegations in divorce may be valid only about 50 percent of the
time. Many of the court counselors and administrators
interviewed believed they were seeing a greater proportion of
such cases than in previous decades.
Ten years later in 1996, Congress amended the
Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act to eliminate blanket
immunity for persons who knowingly make false reports, based on
information that 2,000,000 children were involved that year in
non-valid reports, as opposed to 1,000,000 children who were
genuinely abused (13). In addition, many states have already
enacted laws against willfully making a false child abuse
report. In California where the author and her husband practice,
the Office of Child Abuse Prevention revised their manual for
mandated reporters several years ago to include a section on
false allegations in which the coaching of children during
custody disputes is described as a major problem and Gardner's
work on PAS is referenced (14).
In the meantime, the 1980s saw a massive
campaign to train social workers, police, judges and mental
health professionals in such concepts as "children don't
lie about abuse." To make up for society's blind eye to
child abuse in the past, professionals are encouraged to
unquestioningly " believe the child " and to
reflexively accept all allegations of child abuse as true.
Widespread media attention and a proliferation of popular books
and movies on child abuse continues to suggest that the problem
is widespread and insidious. Parents and professionals alike are
enjoined to be vigilant for what are touted as "behavioral
indicators" of sex abuse. These include the common but
vague symptom of poor self esteem, conflicting
"indicators" such as aggressive behavior and social
withdrawal, and child behaviors which may be developmentally
normal such as sexual curiosity and nightmares. Little attention
is paid to the fact that children may develop the same symptoms
in response to other stressors, including divorce and father
absence.
Children, too, are being sensitized to abuse,
taught about "good touch/bad touch." At the end of
such a lesson in school, they may be asked to report anyone who
they think may have touched them in a bad way. Although some
instances of legitimate abuse are detected in this manner,
children sometimes misunderstand the lesson such that a kindly
grandfather going to scoop up his young grandson in his arms, as
he had done many times before, may find the child pulling back
from him in horror and accusing him of "bad touch."
Adults conducting these classes are sometimes so eager to find
abuse that in one Southern state, the parents of over half the
class were arrested.
The foregoing outline of recent social
changes is not meant to imply that Parental Alienation Syndrome
and false allegations of sex abuse in divorce are synonymous.
PAS can occur with or without such abuse accusations. Although
false allegations of sex abuse are a common spin-off of severe
PAS, other derivative false allegations may include physical
abuse, neglect, emotional abuse, or a fabricated history of
spousal abuse. In addition, there seems to be an increase in PAS
type cases of accusations by the alienating parent that it is
the alienated parent who is practicing PAS, a tactic which tends
to confuse and neutralize interveners.
PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME
According to Gardner, PAS is a disturbance in
the child who, in the context of divorce, becomes preoccupied
with deprecation and criticism of one parent, which denigration
is either unjustified and/or exaggerated. Gardner sees PAS as
arising primarily from a combination of parental influence and
the child's active contributions to the campaign of denigration,
factors which may mutually reinforce one another. Gardner
distinguishes between Parental Alienation Syndrome and the term
"parental alienation." There are a wide variety of
causes for parental alienation, including bonafide parental
abuse and/or neglect, as well as significant deficits in a
rejected parent's functioning which may not rise to the level of
abuse. From Gardner's perspective, a diagnosis of PAS only
applies where abuse, neglect and other conduct by the alienated
parent which would reasonably justify the alienation are
relatively minimal. Thus Gardner conceives of PAS as a
specialized subcategory of generic parental alienation. Since
introducing the concept of PAS in 1985, Gardner has written two
books on the subject (15, 16), and included a chapter on it in
his book entitled Family Evaluation, in Child Custody
Mediation, Arbitration and Litigation(17).
Depending on the severity of the PAS, a child
may exhibit all or only some of the following behaviors. It is
the cluster of these symptoms which prompted Gardner to consider
them as a syndrome.
1) The child is aligned with the alienating
parent in a campaign of denigration against the target parent,
with the child making active contributions;
2) Rationalizations for deprecating the
target parent are often weak, frivolous or absurd;
3) Animosity toward the rejected parent lacks
the ambivalence normal to human relationships;
4) The child asserts that the decision to
reject the target parent is his or her own, what Gardner calls
the "independent thinker" phenomenon; 5) The child
reflexively supports the parent with whom he or she is
aligned;
6) The child expresses guiltless disregard
for the feelings of the target or hated parent;
7) Borrowed scenarios are present, i.e., the
child's statements reflect themes and terminology of the
alienating parent;
8) Animosity is spread to the extended family
and others associated with the hated parent.
In Gardner's experience, born out by the
clinical and research literature reviewed below, mothers are
more frequently found to engage in PAS, which is likened by
Clawar and Rivlin to psychological kidnapping (7). Where PAS
with physical child abduction occurs, however, Huntington
reports that fathers are in the majority (18). Gardner
recognizes that fathers, too, may engage in PAS and gives
examples in his books. For consistency and simplicity, though,
he refers to the alienating parent as "mother" and
target parent as "father."
According to Gardner, the brainwashing
component in PAS can be more or less conscious on the part of
the programming parent and may be systematic or subtle. The
child's active contributions to the campaign of denigration may
help to create and maintain a mutually reinforcing feedback loop
between the child and the programming parent. The child's
contributions notwithstanding, Gardner views the alienating
parent as the responsible adult who elicits or transmits a
negative set of beliefs about the target parent. The child's
loving experiences with the target parent in the past are
replaced with a new reality, the negative scenario shared by the
programming parent and child which justifies their rejection of
the alienated parent. In light of these observations, Gardner
warned that children's statements in divorce/custody about
rejecting one parent should not be taken at face value and
should be evaluated for PAS dynamics. According to psychologist
Mary Lund, this insight is one of Gardner's most important
contributions because it alerted the legal system, parents and
mental health professionals dealing with divorce to an important
possibility which can have disastrous effects if unrecognized
(19).
Gardner emphasizes the importance of
differentiating between mild, moderate and severe PAS in
determining what court orders and therapeutic interventions to
apply. In mild cases, there is some parental programming but
visitation is not seriously effected and the child manages to
negotiate the transitions without too much difficulty. The child
has a reasonably healthy relationship with the programming
parent and is usually participating in the campaign of
denigration to maintain the primary emotional bond with the
preferred parent, usually the mother. PAS in this category can
usually be alleviated by the court's affirming that the
preferred or primary parent will retain primary custody.
In moderate PAS, there is a significant
degree of parental programming, along with significant struggles
around visitation. The child often displays difficulties around
the transition between homes but is eventually able to settle
down and become benevolently involved with the parent he or she
is visiting. The bond between the aligned parent and child is
still reasonably healthy, despite their shared conviction that
the target parent is somehow despicable. At this level, stronger
legal interventions are required and a court ordered PAS
therapist is recommended who can monitor visits, make their
office available as a visit exchange site, and report to the
court regarding failures to implement visitation. The threat of
sanctions against the alienating parent may be needed to gain
compliance. Failure of the system to apply the appropriate level
of court orders and therapeutic interventions in moderate PAS
may put the child at risk for developing severe PAS. In some
moderate cases, after court-ordered special therapy and
sanctions have failed, Gardner states that it may be necessary
to seriously consider transferring custody to the allegedly
hated parent, assuming that parent is fit. In some situations,
this is the only hope of protecting the child from progression
to the severe category.
The child in severe PAS is fanatic in his or
her hatred of the target parent. The child may refuse to visit,
personally make false allegations of abuse, and threaten to run
away, commit suicide or homicide if forced to see the father.
Mother and child have a pathological bond, often based on shared
paranoid fantasies about the father, sometimes to the point of
folie a deux. In severe PAS, Gardner has found that if
the child is allowed to stay with the mother the relationship
with the father is doomed and the child develops long-standing
psychopathology and even paranoia. Assuming the target parent is
fit, Gardner believes that the only effective remedy in severe
PAS is to give custody to the alienated parent. In 1992 he
suggested that courts might be more receptive to the change of
custody option if the child was provided with a therapeutic
transitional placement such as hospitalization, an intervention
employed with success by the author and her husband ( see case
vignette in Part II ).
Gardner's original conception of PAS was
based on the child's preoccupation with denigration of the
target parent. It was not until two years later when he
published his first book on PAS that he addressed the problem of
PAS with false allegations of abuse. Gardner prefers to view
such allegations as derivative of the PAS, observing that they
often emerge after other efforts to exclude the target parent
have failed. Some of the literature reviewed below, however,
indicates that false allegations of abuse may also surface prior
to the marital separation, symptomatic of a pre-existing
psychiatric disorder of the alienating parent which may not be
diagnosed until there is further mental deterioration after the
divorce. Gardner was among the first to recognize that involving
a child in false allegations of abuse is a form of abuse in
itself and indicative of serious problems somewhere in the
divorce family system. Insofar as PAS with false allegations of
abuse can result in permanent destruction of the child's
relationship with the alienated parent, it can be more harmful
to the child than if the alleged abuse had actually occurred.
Gardner supports joint custody for those
parents who can sincerely agree on it and have the ability to
fulfill this ideal. Research by Maccoby and Mnookin suggests
that about 29 percent of divorced parents are successfully
co-parenting three to four years after filing (20). Gardner
opposes imposing joint custody on parents in dispute and between
whom there is significant animosity. For these families, Gardner
recommends that a thorough evaluation be conducted to develop a
case specific plan with the right combination of court orders,
mediation, therapeutic interventions, and arbitration.
HIGH CONFLICT DIVORCE AND PAS
High conflict divorce is characterized by
intense and/or protracted post separation conflict and
hostility between the parents which may be expressed overtly or
covertly through ongoing litigation, verbal and physical
aggression, and tactics of sabotage and deception. Clinical and
research literature suggest that Parental Alienation Syndrome is
a distinctive type of high conflict divorce which may require
PAS specific interventions, just as the problems of divorced
families have been found to respond to divorce specific
interventions rather than to traditional therapies. In their
book on children caught in the middle of high conflict divorce,
Garrity and Baris treat PAS as a distinctive divorce family
dynamic, devoting two chapters to PAS, one on understanding it
and the other on a comprehensive intervention model (21).
In high conflict divorce without significant
PAS, the parents do most of the fighting while the children
manage to go back and forth between homes, maintain their own
views and preserve their affection for both parents. They cope
by developing active skills for maneuvering the situation or by
adopting a survival strategy of treating both parents with equal
fairness and distance (8). Periodically, children may exacerbate
parental conflicts by embellishing age appropriate separation
anxieties, telling each parent things the parent wants to hear
and shifting their allegiance back and forth between the
parents. Nevertheless, they avoid consistent alignment with one
parent against the other and are able to enjoy their time with
each parent once the often difficult transition between homes
has been accomplished.
In high conflict divorce with significant
PAS, the children are personally involved in the parental
conflict. Unable to manage the situation so as to preserve an
affectionate relationship with both parents, the child takes the
side of one parent against the other and participates in the
battle as an ally of the alienating parent who is defined as
good against the other parent who is viewed as despicable. In a
study of 175 children from high conflict families, Johnston
found that chronic hostility and protracted litigation between
the parents contributed to the development of PAS among older
children (9). In other words, where the system is unable to
settle and contain parental divorce conflicts, the children may
be at increasing risk for developing PAS as they get older.
Johnston acknowledges that her findings support Gardner's
contention that as many as 90 percent of children involved in
protracted custody show symptoms of PAS.
A large scale study of patterns of legal
conflict between divorce parents three to four years after
filing contained them significant finding that the most hostile
divorce couples were not necessarily those engaged in the most
contentious legal battles (20). This suggests that PAS may occur
not only in the context of litigation but may develop after
litigation has ceased, or proceed a new round of litigation
after many years, supporting what Dunne and Hedrick found in
their clinical study of severe PAS families (22).
According to Johnston, high conflict divorce
is the product of a multilayered divorce impasse between the
parents (8). Often, the impasse has its roots in one or both
parents' extreme vulnerability to issues of narcissistic injury,
loss, anger and control. These vulnerabilities prevent a
satisfactory divorce adjustment and feed an endless, sometimes
escalating cycle of action and reaction which promotes and
maintains parental conflict. The parents are frozen in
transition, psychologically neither married, separated or
divorced, a pattern which may pertain even when only one parent
is significantly disturbed. Using Johnston's model, PAS can be
viewed as an effort by one parent, with the help of the
children, to "resolve" the divorce impasse with a
clear-cut understanding of who is good, who is to blame and how
the parent to blame should be punished. The following vignette
illustrates this. Like the other case examples interspersed
throughout this article, it is a composite scenario synthesized
from real cases encountered by the author and her colleagues.
Mr. L had adopted his wife's child from her
previous marriage and he and Mrs. L. had a child of their own, a
girl who was six years old when Mr. L. moved out of the family
home. During the six months leading up to this precipitous
event, Mrs. L. was living in one part of the house with the
older child while Mr. L. and his daughter had rooms together in
a separate part of the house. The parents hardly spoke to one
another but the children visited back and forth freely with each
other and with both parents. Under the circumstances, Mr. L. did
not think his wife would object to his leaving, but just in case
there was a scene he decided to move out first and then work out
the practical issues with Mrs. L. He left a letter for her and
another one for the children, explaining his decision and
affirming his desire to make arrangements for visitation and
child support. Mrs. L. was furious. She immediately had the
locks changed and successfully blocked her husband's efforts to
contact the children by phone or to see them. Both children
probably felt betrayed by father and Mrs. L. amplified such
feelings by telling the children their father had abandoned them
and did not- care about them at all. She also alleged that he
had had numerous affairs during the marriage although Mr. L.
always denied that. These allegations may have sprung from the
fact that Mrs. L. found out six weeks after her husband left
that he was dating someone. Outraged, she told Mr. L. that he
would never see the children again. She and the children began
calling Mr. L. and his girl- friend at all hours, screaming
accusations and obscenities over the phone until a restraining
order was obtained. When efforts by father's attorney to arrange
for mediation between Mr. and Mrs. L. were stonewalled, Mr. L.
got a court order for visitation. Three months had passed when
his first opportunity to see his children since moving out was
scheduled. On the eve of this visit, Mrs. L. called child
protective services and accused Mr. L. of sexually molesting
their daughter. According to the social worker's notes which
were obtained during subsequent litigation, Mrs. L. told the
social worker that she "knew" while she and her
husband were still living together that he was molesting their
daughter.
The family law judge ordered a custody
evaluation which was very thorough and took months to complete.
The evaluator documented a number of instances in which the
girl's statements about abuse and hat mg. her father seemed to
be strongly influenced by mother's overwhelming anger and that
of the older half sibling, who was strongly aligned with the
mother. Mrs. L. was diagnosed with a severe narcissistic
personality disorder with antisocial features, while Mr. L. was
seen by the evaluator as rather passive by comparison and as
ambivalent and conflict avoidant. The evaluator was able to hold
one meeting with father and daughter together, during which
their loving attachment to one another was apparent. This was
the little girl's first opportunity to talk to her father about
the feelings engendered by his leaving. As it turned out, it was
also her last opportunity. The PAS intensified such that efforts
to convene further father/daughter sessions failed when the
child threw tantrums in the waiting room and ran screaming into
the parking lot where her mother was waiting.
Seven months after the marital separation,
the custody evaluator's report was released. It stated that the
alleged abuse had in all probability not occurred but failed to
diagnose severe PAS with false allegations of abuse. The
evaluator recommended that the mother retain primary custody and
that the girl and her parents each become involved in individual
therapy to facilitate father/daughter reunification. Not
surprisingly, Mrs. L. arranged for the child to see a
therapist/intern who never saw the custody evaluator's report.
Based on input from the mother alone, the therapist treated the
girl for abuse by her father instead of providing divorce
specific therapy aimed at helping the little girl to adjust to
her parent's divorce and to establish a post divorce
relationship with her father. The girl's anger at her father
became more extreme with each passing month and defeated the
visitations planned by the family mediation center. Finally, a
year after the separation, the custody evaluator was prepared to
testify as to the PAS and to make the strong recommendations
needed to remedy the situation. By that time, the father was
convinced that nobody could do anything about his daughter's
continued expressions of hatred toward him. He also felt daunted
by the prospect of further litigation and an even greater
financial drain. He decided to let go, hoping that one day when
his daughter was older she would understand and seek him out.
CHILDREN HELD HOSTAGE: DEALING WITH PROGRAMMED AND
BRAINWASHED CHILDREN
By the late 1970s, judges, parents, and
mental health professionals involved with divorce were so
concerned about parental programming that the American Bar
Association Section on Family Law commissioned this 12 year
study of 700 divorce families (7). Clawar and Rivlin found that
the problem of parental programming was indeed widespread and
that even at low levels it had significant impact on children.
Data from multiple sources was analyzed including: written
records such as court transcripts, forensic reports, therapy
notes and children's diaries; audio and video tapes of
interactions between children, their parents and others related
to the case; direct observations, such as children with parents
and clients with attorneys; and interviews with children,
relatives, family friends, mental health professionals, school
personnel, judges and conciliators.
Gardner's work on PAS is referenced at the
beginning of Clawar and Rivlin's book (7), but the authors take
issue with what they represent as his position, that less severe
cases need not be a cause of great concern. They found that PAS
can result from a variety of complex processes, whether or not
one parent engages in a systematic programming campaign and
whether or not alienation is the programming parent's goal.
Parental alienation is only one of a number of detrimental
effects. According to this study, even well meaning parents
often at tempt to influence what their children say in the
custody and visitation proceedings.
Mild levels of parental programming and
brainwashing seem to have significant effects.
Clawar and Rivlin anchor their work in 30
years of literature on social psychology and the processes of
social influence, variously referred to in the literature as
thought reform, brainwashing, indoctrination, modeling,
mimicking, mind control, re-education, and coercive persuasion.
These terms describe a variety of psychological methods for
ridding people of ideas which authorities do not want them to
have and for replacing old ways of thinking and behavior with
new ones. For the purposes of research, Clawar and Rivlin
ascertained the need for more precisely defined terminology.
They selected the words "programming" and
"brainwashing." They defined "program" as
the content, themes, and beliefs transmitted by the programming
parent to the child regarding the other parent.
"Brainwashing" was defined as the
interactional process by which the child was persuaded to accept
and elaborate on the program. Brainwashing occurs over time and
involves repetition of the program, or code words referring to
the program, until the subject responds with attitudinal and
behavioral compliance.
According to Clawar and Rivlin, the influence
of a programming parent can be conscious and willful or
unconscious and unintentional. It can be obvious or subtle, with
rewards for compliance that were material, social or
psychological. Noncompliance may be met with subtle
psychological punishment such as withdrawal of love or direct
corporal punishment, as illustrated in the case vignette of S in
Part II. The author encountered another case in which the
alienating mother handcuffed her son to the bedpost when he was
12 years old and the boy asserted he was not willing tocontinue
saying his father had physically abused him. The Clawar and
Rivlin study found that children may be active or passive
participants in the alienation process. As the case of the 12-
year-old boy suggests, the nature and degree of the child's
involvement in the PAS may change over time.
This study identifies the influential role of
other people in the child's life, such as relatives and
professionals aligned with the alienating parent, whose
endorsement of the program advances the brainwashing process. In
a general way, these findings appear to replicate Johnston's
research on high conflict divorce which identified the
importance of third party participants in parental conflicts
(8). Rand noted the influence of so-called "professional
participants in Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy type abuse which in
divorce can overlap with PAS "(23).
Clawar and Rivlin identify eight stages of
the programming/brainwashing process which culminates in severe
Parental Alienation Syndrome (7). Recognizing the power
imbalance between parent and child, they view the process as
driven by the alienating parent who induces the child's
compliance on step by step basis:
1 ) A thematic focus to be shared by the
programming parent and child emerges or is chosen. This may be
tied to a more or less formal ideology relating to the family,
religion, or ethnicity;
2) A sense of support and connection to the
programming parent is created;
3) Feeling of sympathy for the programming
parent is induced;
4) The child begins to show signs of
compliance, such as expressing fear of visiting the target
parent or refusing to talk to that parent on the phone;
5) The programming parent tests the child's
compliance, for example, asking the child questions after a
visit and rewarding the child for " correct "
answers;
6) The programming parent tests the child's
loyalty by having the child express views and attitudes which
suggest a preference for one parent over the other;
7) Escalation/intensification/generalization
occurs, for example, broadening the program with embellished or
new allegations; the child rejects the target parent in a
global, unambivalent fashion;
8) The program is maintained along with the
child's compliance, which may range from minor reminders and
suggestions to intense pressure, depending on court activity and
the child's frame of mind.
CLINICAL STUDIES OF PAS
According to Gardner and seconded by
Cartwright, Parental Alienation Syndrome is a developing concept
which clinical and forensic practitioners will refine and
redefine as new cases with different features become better
understood (24). This section reviews the work of practitioners
who, like Cartwright, seek to elaborate on Gardner's work by
contributing their own knowledge and experience from work with
moderate to severe PAS cases.
Dunne and Hedrick
Practicing in Seattle, Washington, Dunne and
Hedrick analyzed sixteen families who met Gardner's criteria for
severe PAS (22). Although the cases show a wide diversity of
characteristics, the authors found Gardner's criteria useful in
differentiating these cases from other post-divorce
difficulties, lending support for the idea that PAS has
distinctive features which differentiate it from other forms of
high conflict divorce. Among the severe PAS cases examined, some
involved false allegations of abuse and some did not. Children
in the same family sometimes responded to the divorce with
opposing adjustments. For example, the oldest child in one
family, a 16-year-old girl, aligned with her alienating mother
while her 12-year-old brother's desire for a relationship with
his father led to the mother finally rejecting the boy.
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